befuddled, you don't know how much you helped me just now by telling me the things that were just happening.

You helped because two people were sort of putting me down in a forum a bit ago... and ... well, it's so easy to react when that happens.

I've been stewing a bit.

But then after I read your post, and thought about it... I was so glad you wrote that, and that I hadn't done anything...

Whew.

Thank you, soooo much.

((((((((befuddled))))))))))