Does TxLady have a PO box #. I was thinking of sending a note with some cash to be spent as she pleases, or maybe she would like us to send flowers or whatever. I don't know. Tena, can you find out how TxLady would like all those who would like to pay respect to her daughter. Maybe she would like flowers, or in lieu of that something to start an education fund for her granddaughter, once again , i don't know, i just would like to help a little bit in this terrible time of her loss. cs