Thanks Debbee
I was thinking that one of the things i want to bring up before I go in is how i will communicate with the tech, so very glad u mentioned that. that would freak me out, so i will stress to them how important it is to me. my mri is tomorrow, so i will report back after it's over. you're right, last time i kept telling myself how it would be fine and denying my fear then as it got closer i was very panicked. this time i have tried to be honest about how i am feeling and hopefully that has helped.

all the best, and thanks again!