Hi Ladybird and let me do an most unplesant welcome to you... not that my wish is not cordial nor do I feel I am being unwelcoming to you it is just that I feel sorry that you are here and that is the hurt that brings you about! The group here is so wram invitining, true a family who has its ups and downs and yes we have our spats and it may seem as though the preverbial knife is still fresh in ones back... I consider this area an extended family and hope that for just one moment change does not take place and each person remains free to express their spririt... with that said plase allow me to introduce myself... on the outside and name given at birth is Mark, however a number of years ago I had an entity move into me known as TOS and since this "BASTARD" *please do mind me being frank and speaking with this slight profanity*unpacked his bags and moved in I thought this entity should be give a name so what came about was GOOBER ! On a different note I offer my prayers and thoughts to the miniers and their families!!! Mark~n~Goober