Thanks your funny. He is one of a kind that is for sure. I will say money doesn't buy happiness or health. My mom did say she would come for a few weeks and I talked to my ex step dad who was thinking of moving near. I have always been sensitive to cold and hated MI weather before this pn. With this though I'm scared of it. Even like this morning and yesterday being cooler I noticed. Maybe I would adjust but to the 0 I don't know. It will be stressful and even trying to decide is. I feel either way will be wrong. I do know that staying in all winter will not be a good thing either. I know I'm a mommies girl and also under this pain issue makes things hard but even before this my gramps had offered for me to move down there. I didn't want to. Most people would jump at this. Even though he is emotionally hard on me. He has so many fun toys a big yacht,fancy cars,huge home. You go to this club and they have tea time. Its so weird for me as I'm used to though lucky living cheap cause before my pn I wanted to be on my own financially so I worked and went to school full time. I watched all my pennies. I felt good though about being self responsible. It still is a shock though going from an apartment and driving a focus to a mansion and a bentley if that makes sense? I just want to be fixed,healthy,and happy and go back to being on my own even if that means having to cut coupons. On a seperate note I got a call from u of m pain clinic that the anastesolgist referred me to from ohio. I have a meeting with them next month. I may move up the apt if I can though but was waiting to make more a choice on the treatment and now since its in both legs. Thanks again.