You can say that again. My gramps is 84 and my friends are in the 20's both have no clue. I wish if people had no idea they would just listen then give advice or stupid remarks. I'm a big card person I send them to everyone. I love too and when I get one just even saying hang in there it makes me feel so warm. I wish people who are "normal" you know what I mean would just stick to that rather then add sadness or aggrevation to the pain. Like almost I can just will myself to make the pain go away or get better. Sure I love living like I got shot in the legs. I guess for me I try to focus on the people who do support me like my mom and you guys but the bad seeds do stick out. Hugs to all.