I do know exactly were you are coming from in lots of the things you are saying. And I can tell you one of the things I would start with first.

I would look for a neurologist that specializes in balance issues.

Its a neurologist that will look for central abnormalities and work to get you to a vestibular physical therapist. Who will then help you to work on the dizziness, balance and will help you learn to adapt to the problems or at least some of them you have stated.

This is what I am doing.

I am part of the PCS group so come talk to us there.

Donna