I fill so good about Alan. and i feel so bad that i had to finally say no,
about for the first time saying no i can't take care of Bob,well anybody.
I have never done that . And have no one to talk to. they same he will
be in the nursing home for 4 to 5 months,i feel so rotten and i hate
letting him down. We both got sick at the same time,i know the girls
will visit him,but i keep thinking how upset mom would be.. Sue