I've been questioned about pain meds because I look "healthy". I try not to outwardly show my pain because it does not go away. It is not like a broken bone, or after surgery. IT does not go away. I did have 6 amazing years pain free. But while I had it before and while I have it now, it is here.

My husband and I were discussing pain meds. He had surgery. He is healing. I am not. I am told not to exercise. NO PT. Just rest my trap muscle. How am I going to get better! I go for my appointments and am told come back next month. My hubby can wean off meds because he is healing. What do I do.