Melody my mom swears by orthotics though she is under not near the issues of your husband every little bit may help. I hope to get them when at a better point. You guys are lucky to have each other. It must be hard too though when both are in pain and struggling. I wish you had someone to take care of you. You need some tender love and care. Someone to make you muffins too. I always think of you when I go to Dunkin with my mom.
Shiney sue I understand and hear your feelings but like Melody says we can't help others if were struggling. I'm sure he knows how you wish you could and how you love him. A person can only do so much when under this. I would have to do the same. I can barely take care of me. I know for me like with my mom doing so much and I feel bad I send her cards or flowers it just makes me feel better. So maybe you can do something like that. It can lift both spirits.