speaking of books...

Lizard just posted this somewhere else I noticed and I thought it would be a great one to share here as well. So, Thankyou LIZARD

Too Loud, Too Bright, Too Fast, Too Tight: What to Do If You Are Sensory Defensive in an Overstimulating World
(Paperback)
by Sharon Heller (Author)

I wasn't familiar with this one although I found some of the books by Carol Kranowitz very helpful when my son was younger. e.g. "The Out of Sync Child".

There was another one listed on the amazon website called "The Sensory-Sensitive Child: Practical Solutions for Out-of-Bounds Behavior by Karen A. Smith.

I've not read it so can't comment, but it does sound helpful. Maybe someone else has read that one and can comment at some time in the future.