Thanks Melody. I responded back. For the cards its like my therapy too and gives me a good feeling. I love to card shop and send cute ones. Your right people are in a rush. Many of my friends are always in the fast lane. I think for many if mine is cause they don't stop and think but rush into things. They don't worry about the end result and just think in the now. I have been the opposite as I obsess and worry. I do feel many people are just into them when don't have extreme issues. I feel people who have struggles not just with pain but other things have more depth and compassion. They take the little things in life with pleaure. Like you say taking a walk in less pain. On the husband note and orthotics but also make sure he has good shoes and replaces them. I used to be a former runner before the pn and making sure to change shoes in the right time can help with support and blisters. It maybe expensive but really in the long rum saves money and pain.