Hi Ladyhellmuth,

I know this is about fibromyalgia but has ideas to help with pain and baby.....
http://www.pregnancy-info.net/fibromyalgia.html

http://www.pregnancy-info.net/QA/questions-Discomfort/


perhaps this will help....sorry don't have more info to help you but perhaps a consult with an occupational therapist may be of help to give you answers about tools and things that will help you with your pain and dealing with your issues. there are many things available to help if you are able to get an OT or even a PT to help.

best of luck
love and hugs,
Victoria