Dear mari,
Do you suffer with chronic fatigue syndrome?
If you do they might not understand the things that you go thru...after all of this time you would think that they would get it.....
It sounds like you have a good plan...let them do what ever they want, you can say no thanks or bring a book and maybe an umbrella for the sun or a hat.
This is a crazy time of the year to visit...hot, hurricane season, and hectic for you starting back up with school.
Cleaning......Sometimes I use a swifter on the floors to pick up cat hairs and then a wet swifter to quickly clean the kitchen floor...I need to scrub my bathroom floor!
What about doing nothing and asking them to help you? Would that be out of the question?
That is a good idea!...Perhaps you could hire someone to clean while you are still there so hubby would not worry about someone being there?...Of course whatever you need to do to make youself feel better...I am all for that!
You will get thru this...you really will.
hang in there....
((((HUGS))))
bizi