I must have chosen an unfortunate username. There are loads of BEM websites, many people with last name Bem, many strange and less strange companies and groups have the name BEM, from music to engineering to University trans-gender group to Brazilian support web site. Nothing appears that has anything to do with me.
My old username, B. Myers is the name of about 5% or more of the US population, so has totally drowned amongst the crowds.

Or - maybe I'm not doing it right.........