and your need to vent. But think on the good side [OK you can kick the 'puter now] YOU DID IT! Yes, it's gonna take a while to get things just so...not to mention, find things? Isn't that the way when we try to go on even a short trip?
I suggest you take a 1/2 day off, and CHILL...do something you really enjoy and be totally laid-back about it all. Recharge and face the next round of hassle with a bit more strength and patience.
I wish I could suggest that you find a 'friend' and adopt their hot tub for an hour or so, My issue with those things has always been the Getting IN and OUT. Being IN has never been an issue...Sigh? Unless, you also know someone who happens to have a forklift for your occasion....

It is also a treasure that you had friend and family 'helping'. Sure beats the hired help stuff by a factor of ten!

Thinking soothing thoughts your way - buy a lottery ticket...Who knows?

- j