but i love the way you oldtimers stick together, watching each others back. it gives me a secure feeling i'm glad i missed the bt thing but even happier that this nt was here (with you guys in it) when i started searching out support and education for my newwly dxd pd.

the guidelines appear fair to me and i think the way the moderators and admins stay involved is vital. that said, i dont agree with all the locks and closings and wiping of posts. imho working through these "growing pains" is the path to a strong community.

kinda wishy-washy but i find myself rooting for each poster in this thread and saying "yeah, thats right, what about that?