I have a legal situation going on...nothing as desperate as yours sounds. Mine involves my youngest daughter and her paternity. Finding good help is difficult and since I can't afford a lawyer I'm stuck with legal aid or nothing. Any kind of legal trouble is enough to raise stress and anxiety levels sky high. I hope and pray you get the relief you need and deserve. It sounds like you're doing all the right things and that you've got a good understanding of your situation and that's half the battle.