Standing up for someone does not equal standing against anyone else.

Disagreeing with someone does not equal attacking them.

Being ignored happens to everyone and does not equal hostility.

Fault-finding and name-calling are sometimes cries for help, which is difficult to offer in the face of them.

Vicki and Carolyn, I will read your posts again to see if you are asking for something that you want or need from me today.

Jaye