Beth, let me help.

1) Don't schlepp the boxes, go online to UPS labels and they'll pick them up.

2) If it can be replaced, leave it. Everything you take from that life will live as a reminder.

3) Leave the cellphone in the car, get rid of that man completely and liberate yourself once and for all.

4) Any gifts of jewelry, or valuables are sellable!

You'll make it, Beth, you need to liberate yourself from what sounds like basic tyranny! He's playing mind games with you and it's time to advance your token to the finish line!