Dear Pam,
Please vent.
Complain. We are not your RL family. You don't have to keep up a pleasant front for us.

What are they inspecting?
You prob don't have to worry about the laundry and such.
When we get an inspection notice I freak out too. It is normal to feel that way about someone coming into your place.

And I have no idea what they are looking for. Maybe I should ask. At the old apt, they would periodically inspect for structural issues or water damage or such. Maybe they look for things like evidence of extra people or pets not on the lease?

And yeah, our toilet needed a new bolt recently. Sometimes the toilets do that and start leaking all by themselves with just normal wear and tear. So to have the toilet repaired twice is only one more time beyond normal wear and tear. Anyway, get them to fix it. They would rather fix it than deal with the resultant water damage.

And yes, close that bed room door. I'm sorry to hear that you don't get privacy. Is that how your whole day is?? No wonder you sound like you have long tough days.
You are strong. If someone tried to push me off the toilet, they might succeed.

Mari