Don't worry he doesn't get rewarded. We sit there with the lights off for an hour and a half before I get to the point to where I turn anything on because he is just obviously not going to go back to bed. I didn't feel you were out of line at all Mari, thanks for posting, it helps to just know that people care and that I am not alone you know? You guys matter more to me then I can really put into words.

We both take melatonin, I think I am going to stop taking it though with how manic I've been feeling these days. I remember hearing it wasn't really good for us BPers to take so maybe it's aggrivating my symptoms. I think I have been putting him to bed to early, 9:30 is a bit early I think so maybe 10 will work out better. Thanks for suggesting Melatonin though Donna, I know it's something that really does help him fall asleep it's just that he wakes up to go to the bathroom, the liquid restricting might help more then anything so I will post again and let you all know how it goes.