"always thought he just listened better when i yelled louder...still not 100% sure who is right"
Jo Kat you sooooo have it right on the money here!!! I think he dosn't listen until i start to yell then he thinks it's serious. So I have to yell to feel like he gets what I am saying or I say are u listening to me??? then make him turn off the tv and get rid of distractions and tell him what I was going to say if I can remember by then....lol.....

Thanks for that one!!!!

love and hugs,
Victoria