Pam

You also need to look at this from another angle. You can look at this
from the angle that your doing this to get some help for working with Jackie
too. This is to help figure out some stratigies for when Jackie is way off
board.

Maybe the hubby can help brainstorm with the therapist and you. On how
things might work. Let him realize that he is going to be a team player,
not just there to be given the look over.

Let him realize he is going to be helping make things work better so that
Jackie fits in better as he gets older. This might make him really want to
be part of the team too.

He also might want to work on how the medicine seems to be helping, maybe start with the melantonin, say like with why its not keeping Jackie asleep
as long as he needs to be.

Donna