Wow, LinJane, you've really hit the nail on the head. After a long wait(I'm 39) and multiple miscarriages, our first baby(surviving twin) was born last August. I can't tell you how upset I've been about having to limit my time holding her, adjusting her position, etc. She's adapted, but I'm very concerned about how that impacts her.

I'm tentatively scheduling surgery in January...scans show I may be lucky and get by without first rib resection. I'm not looking forward to it, but I am looking forward to being able to raise my arms again!

Marabunta