for your kind words, thoughts, and suggestions. I know other forum members have gone through the same experience so it is not unique to me - that said it's still bloody difficult - this was the 7th time in 17 years but one never gets used to them.

We do have some breathing room since my wife survived the same downsizing at the same time but we haven't decided yet what we are going to do.

Thank you all again.

Alkymst