Thanks everyone, I am resolvig to let his allergies go untreated if this is what allergy medication is going to turn him into. I have cried before when he's hurt me, like today sadly he hit my spine in the center of my back with a rod part of his boat toy and man did that hurt, took my breath away. But the towel slapping, I sit here holding almost every darn towel in the place to keep him from it, then he moves to pillows and those can hurt slammed into your face or your wrist.

*sigh*

I know how uncomfortable allergies are and I understand this might mean he might have another nosebleed, but I cannot live like this with him. It's just unbearable. I just needed to vent though, thanks everyone for caring. You're all wonderful friends. I consider myself lucky he's not hurting himself, that I think would be worse you know? Self injurious behavior is common in autism and he's usually pretty good about that.