Roxie, my heart just aches for you. I went througha very similiar situation some years ago, and it is very painful not to be valued for your work, and to be unfairly mistreated. I agree than insurance costs might be a motivation in his behavior, but in my experience this is an all too common way that many people resond to someone with disabilities. I have seen it over and over. Some healthy people just seem to get enraged when someone gets sick or diabled and needs reasonable accomodations. Maybe they feel threatened or something. I don't know why they react that way, but I do know that it happens. I had many patients experience this. We need to pray for them, for praying for our enemies heaps flaming coals upon their heads...lol. Keep you chin up, take a deep breath, and know that you are worthy of all you request. Keep in mind what a wonderful person you are, and what a sad, small, pathetic man he is.