Hi, Molly,
Thanks for asking. I don't feel good but I am also trying to put in some distance.
I've been visiting the ICU alot more than I wish in the past couple years. I'm learning that what is going on with the other person is not about me.
But it is still hard. This evening I was noticing the anxiety growing in my chest. It feels ok now.

But it turns out I wasted the day in terms of getting any work done for school tomorrow.
Maybe I should at least make sure that I get to bed early tonight.

Mari