Years ago when I was trying to get off of all meds, as I was slowing down, the less I took, the more I acted drugged. I acted drunk as I took less. Could be as you are taking less topomax it is having an affect on you. Don't know but I know that had happened to me with different meds. I would sleep walk. Get up at night and light the stove to make tea. My husband was a wreck. He couldn't sleep worrying I was going to burn the house down. I had fallen down the stairs. My mother-in-law had to move in with us. It was embarassing. That's when I checked in to the hospital in NY. The best thing I ever did. Just had to get all the crap out of my body. It wasn't that I needed it any more, it was that my body wouldn't let me stop taking it. Good luck. Have your fiance keep an eye on you so you don't hurt yourself and feel better. Linda