Hi John,
When I was 31, I was told about the MS in June, was pregnant by Oct (as soon as the paralysis eased up ~ not a good plan!), and was dx with cervical cancer in December. I was still numb for several months after the baby was born . . .
I am now 48, and have two children, aged 11 and 15. I have had a relatively good go of the MS (especially since I got on LDN), and have had no return of cancer.
I empathize with what you are going through and I would strongly suggest counselling to get you through this period. After the baby was born, I cried for an hour, twice a week, for a year.

It really helped.
Cherie
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