Dorrie, I will say a prayer for you! I don't have any grandchildren, but a troubled son gives me fits. You gotta do what you think is best. A troubled grandson is something you don't need, I know. Your son, got himself in this mess and he needs to get himself out.
I have one in prison, and he likes to keep me churned up. It makes me sick to know the problems they can bring on theses days. I pray he gets himself out of all this before its to late. Sending you a big hug!
Best Wishes,
Billie