Hello, My name is Laurie. I am Pez's wife. Most of you know him as this, but his name is Tom. Tom enjoyed communicating with everyone so it is with great sadness that I share the news of his passing. Tom fought a good fight and never lost his sense of humor. He taught many of his family and friends how to make the most of every day. He considered briefly having a trach, but never wanted to go that route. Tom went on hospice in the middle of June. Unfortunately, his strength faded quickly over the summer. After an arduous and courageous battle with ALS, Tom passed away on August 28th around 6:42 pm. Under hospice supervision, Tom began palliative sedation that morning. In layman's terms, with certain medicines he went into a deep sleep. Then nature took over from there. This way he did not have to consciously struggle with choking or not being able to breathe, which were his greatest fears. Tom said that we all have to leave this world someway, this is the way he wanted to go. Tom was very peaceful and comfortable and in no pain. He did not suffer at all. The hospice team was wonderful, and they took great care of Tom. Risa (our daughter) and I were with him all the way through as well. As he lived his life with dignity and grace, he also died with dignity and grace. Tom and I were together for 29 years. We were able to celebrate our 25th anniversary last December. I quit my job shortly after that to become his caregiver full time. I feel very fortunate to have been able to do this, and I would do it all over again. I love him and miss him so much. Please keep Tom in your thoughts and prayers. With love and peace to you all. ~Laurie~ To laugh often and much; To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or redeemed social condition; To know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded - Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Alan Burton (Vacaville)
Alan left us yesterday (Oct 17, 2007) in mid afternoon. He was
peaceful and simply went to sleep. His daughter Debbie and his
stepdaughter Sue were taking care along with Anne, Alan's wife.
He finished his last book.
Canary Burton

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Hello! I'm Rusty Staup and I am writing to inform you that my father PapJr passed away Thursday evening at 9:15 PM. He went quietly. He will be at Melenyzer's funeral home (1008 Furlong Ave. Roscoe PA. 15477) Sunday the 14th from 6 to 8 PM., Monday the 15th at 2 to 4 & 6 to 8. The funeral will be at the Roscoe Presbyterian Church at 11:00 AM on Tuesday the 16th.

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