Hi,
Hubby started doing crap about how I have changed since we got married two years ago and that he didn't really know what we he was getting into.
B.S. He knew and I have not changed.

I had been working all weekend trying to be calm and trying to achieve my equilibrium. Then he walked into my computer room from behind me and said something that completely startled me/freaked me out and I started crying. *

So then I had to spend time with him and I suppose that we calmed each other down. But I still think I would have liked to have focused on keeping myself calm rather than dealing with him.

Does this make sense? I would like to ask for about 30 days of being allowed to be the big baby around here. After 30 days I'll go back to paying lots of attention to him and helping him with his emotional needs.

Mari




* He's hyper/ocd/hyperfocusedd ADD/has some anxiety. . . (my expert diagnoses )