By the way, you mentioned a lack of funds for your medical care.

Recently, I had to have surgery. When I was back for a followup, I mentioned to my surgeon that my friend's husband had a serious hernia, which protruded about 6 inches from the abdomen. He had lost his job, and thus his health insurance and I asked if the doctor could offer any suggestions...

I was really thrilled that he was kind enough to offer his services at Medicare pricing, due to the circumstances. This made a huge difference in the family's ability to pay for surgery.

I am not sure that all doctors are so generous, but perhaps it would not hurt to ask, at least for some direction, if they are unable to offer help.

Cathie