Hi,

Before we got married we saw each other about 3 days a week for 10 years. we lived in nearby cities.


Also, I cry more now than before we married, especially if I am trying to explain something to him. (We don't yell at each other.)
We anticipated some difficulties about living together. In fact for many years we talked about never living together -- about getting separate appartments right next door to each other. We both need a lot of space.


The work stuff needs to let up soon. Usually the extra work kind of goes in cycles. But this cycle is a long one.

Acyuallly, your posts reminded me that if the big boss asks me to do something else beyond what I am doing, I will tell her no.

Mari