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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Southern California
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Location: Southern California
Posts: 518
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Hi Tamara,
What I notice most about my hubby when I am at my worst is that he is of course very concerned but he is more stand off. I will tell him how bad my pain level's are and all of a sudden he has selective hearing. Then an hour later he will ask me, how are you doing?
I have noticed that when I am emotional that he chooses to also focus on something else such as his computer or a book. He use to pay attention to it more but I know it bothers him as I have seen him become teary eyed so I think it is his way of dealing with my pain and depression. This is fine because he is there for me when I am at my worse too. I hope that makes sense to you.
He has always stayed with me and hasn't left me because he couldn't deal with my pain and when I need anything he is there for me.
So I guess my hubby is the opposite he will leave me alone when I feel awful and I am the one who wants to talk at times.
Funny how were all so different... Hu...
I hope you are feeling better soon...
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Dawn
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