To Froglady, Thanks for the reply, One of the tools I use is I write everything down. I like sticky notes and 3x5 cards. When I have to go talk to the mean people at Social Security Office I alway take a friend and I do not make important deciesions until I talk it over with someone. I set up a master mind group of 4 men and 1 women for feed back on dealing with people unfortunately some people are not very nice and will try to take advange of me because I can't think fast enough to call them on there BS Another problem withTBi is that I have tunnel vision. I have to stay focused on 1 task or it doesn't get done.

Life is a game and should be treated as such.

Take care get well and don't give up Jeff