I guess i am lucky in the way my guy never runs or says anything but supportive things to me when i am out of control but most of the time i think he forgets that there is anything wrong with me. So i have to remind him like when he wont's me to go watch him bowling or four wheeling or help fixing the bikes. I know it hurts him that i don't well i can't do these things any more but he gets it when i remind him and he gives me a big hug and says some day when you get better we will do the things we did before or we will try. Then he tells me how much he loves me and everything well be fine because we have each other. He also jokes all the time that he is scared that when i am off the pain pills i will leave him. He is a good guy and we are very much in love and i think we work so well because we talk things out in stead of fighting or yelling at each other and we know when to shut up and back off of each other if one of us is in a bad mood.