thank you again. You would think that after 6 years I would appreciate all that you have said. I have tried to be patient, but you get to the point that your patience is wearing very thin - you could say thread bare! There is some saying about "so little time so much to do " - something like that. The psycholgist told me the other day that those with my personality type - the picky, fussy, perfectionists can find this the hardest to cope with. I am now developing further levels of tolerance she says with a grin on her face!!!!