Your list is too big! One, only one step is required. His clothes...that's so hard....but it will help you to know that there are many needy people who could use and so appreciate having them. And it will help you to have them gone from your home to a new place. via the goodwill, good samaritans, church rummage sales....etc.
It's just "baby steps" dear lady...but it's a beginning.