She has gotten much worse. In keeping with his normal MO, my FIL waited until he was at the end of his rope and capabilities and then expected that he could get help immediately which just does not happen. It resulted in a fiasco... and she is deteriorating rapidly. It is just so sad.
The GP has offered hospice - of course - both my hubby and my FIL said no and do not understand why she offered it. I do not think she is doing well and is fading fast but has occasional times where she gets up out of bed so that makes FIL think she is going to get better as his denial is full and complete.
Thank you for thinking of me.