Obviously, that's not going to happen but here's my problem. I dated this girl for 3 years in high school and towards the end of the relationship, we started having sex because we loved each other and thought we would be together forever...how naive we were. I was 18 then and i am 20 now and in college. I'm no longer with her but instead, i am with another girl. We've been best friends since high school and we are so close. We love each other's company and we decided to take our relationship to the next level. Everythings been going great except for one thing...i'm not a virgin and she is and she has no idea i've had sex already. I think this will really cause a problem because we are both christians and believe in waiting. I hate myself for what i've done and i'm so afraid of hurting her and losing her if i tell her but i know i have to tell her. I don't know when the time is right and i don't know what to do. This has been weighing heavily on my mind lately. Any advice would be helpfull.