Hi. Make a recording of the message before you erase your answering machine. That way you have it for evidence in 5 years when you want to show that he has been continually discriminated against. Then I agree play dumb. You can tell them that you know a boy with CP who went on the school skating trip in second grade. They got my son out on the ice - and he did pretty well!!

There was also a boy in his grade who spent most of his day in a wheel chair - they even got him out on the ice a little bit!!! When the PT started getting too tired from holding him up, they brought thwe whole darn chair out on the ice.

So, if my school can do all that..............

BTW, I don't know if Noah swims, but swimming has been the best extracurricular for my son.

Good luck with the school.

- momster