You want it back?
I don't understand that, really. If you had sex before you should know that sex is finding that special 'touch' in eachother. So with every other partner, you will be a virgin again. You have to find what she likes best, and vice versa. And then find out what you both like to feel comfortable with. Sex is like dancing, finding eachother's rhythmics. I wish you luck to find your new girlfriend's hers! And for her, to find yours, and for your both, to find eachother's ;-)