good news! Far better than going around in circles with all 'professionals' going DUH?
I do know that I am truly benefitting from your experiences, tho in partial hindshight. I also wish with all my heart that none of us had to 'learn' from these experiences!
I believe that a dialogue on mattresses -types and the pros and cons of each from our own personal viewpoints could be useful but for a new thread.
All in all, I wish I could asorb all your pain and ease your life for even a minute! I am not sure that I could do the asorbing, nor take any extra aspects of pain myself. So, I'll be selfish in that quarter. I will tho, truly hope that SOMETHING, Combo or whatever...can help you and NOW.

's from my heart...Be super careful now, this moving about stuff is truly dangerous? - j