".....Sometimes life just isn't fair...".

Yup, 'lemons to lemonade' is 'pap'.
I think that those of us who keep plugging are just too mean to let it
get us down. We have our moments, but its just danged 'cussidness'
that gets us thru. (and to he11 with those who think we're getting meaner, or our attitudes have changed) Life with pain 24/7 has a way
of altering the way we treat situations, ourselves....and others.

My wife is a quick walker, hurries thru every walking situation, loves to window shop, visits every store in the mall, & is a great bargain hunter.
When she gets about 1/2 block in front of me and doesn't
even realize that I'm wayyy behind, I yell.....
"You're going too fast. keep it up, I'll either catch up eventually
or look for me on a bench..Oh, BTW- keep your cell phone on
(she keeps it turned off most times) in case I lose you" .
I usually do, and if I've forgotten my cell phone, spend endless time searching for her....especially in a mega-food supermarket.
Its frustrating and I usually get somewhat upset about it.