get a lawyer that is informed about PD, do not count on legal aid,
do not make any decision without a lawyer -if you can find an ethical lawyer,
hire them -ASAP...
do not sign anything that your former spouse tells you to sign - because they do not care about you now -
they may have a "replacement" for you already -
In my divorce - my ex - took what he could - lied -was combative -putting it technically, as I must right now
-this is a broadcast station for your ex-spouses attorney...
so now is the time for questions -only...
divorce laws differ state to state, my state has old laws for women -dating
back to -"the men own the wives"
you may have children of divorce classes -if so you must attend them, or
they can put you in jail for contempt,
also -
harley - do not leave your home, he can leave -he is not disabled or on medication,
secondly -if you leave -the "EX" can actually lie and tell any story they want
so they can keep you off "your own premices"
if you break the ex-parte -they can and will arrest you...
there is no morals now -this is a fight for money and stuff game...
there are no winners -
money and stuff are needful, yet try to be as peaceful as possible...
settling out of court would be a blessing...
and yes harley, in some states if your husband refuses to support you
you will be on state aid, [ medicaid] ebt aka food stamps- a small copay
like 2 dollars per script, but this alternative sounds like you are in a bad way already...
do not speak online - at all -
except for questions...
bottom line
life goes on... and you will be fine perhaps you are divorcing the disease? it is a blessing in disguise truly...
and when you married vows were exchanged and more than likely they said - for richer or poorer
through sickness and health, till death parts you both...
that was the contract: and yes, we maybe ill -but love is not suppose to be conditional...
we live a in throw away world, and that ideology hurts people as well...