Tena says it well...
"and when you married vows were exchanged and more than likely they said - for richer or poorer
through sickness and health, till death parts you both...
that was the contract: and yes, we maybe ill -but love is not suppose to be conditional...
we live a in throw away world, and that ideology hurts people as well..."

Harley, do not leave your home, unless you have other permanent living arrangements that will suit you financially. I hope you have a strong support group, too-in family or friends. I know nothing of the law, except it varies state to state, and there's too much red tape.
Good luck to you, and my prayers are with you.
Steph