getting a late start today, the time change and the bathroom repair job wore me out a bit I think.
plus forgot to take vitamins all last week

Barb, one step at a time, I think is a good way to go.
Get to know him as a neighbor and friend.

Lots of brothers are totally different than each other, my brothers are and so are my uncles - boy as I think about it- every brother {uncles, friends, family} I think of is different. Some might have similar basic values, but that differs too sometimes.